Ok I am 55 and in my area there are several senior scrambles every week. Like a Minnie tour. There is a scramble 3-4 days a week each blind draw and each day different course as to not draw from each others fields. So my question is this. Everyone moves up tees 55-65 three tees and 65 over four tees so when in your normal foursomes due you move to a forward tee? My normal group has 1-2 guys much younger than me and my buddie and when should we feel comfortable moving up a tee box without making the others upset? And at what age do you start considering graphite shafts?